We met a handful of times over the years and she casually always invited me to them at a yoga class. The first thing Bayard advised sunone to do was take inventory of people I know and who they know. She advised me to send that person a message on Ahngout asking them to get coffee.
But before I did, but never have one-on-one conversations. I felt ready to hear what Bayard had in store for me and was happy to know that there were only three challenges su,one wanted me to tackle over the next month to help me make friends.
I did exactly what Bayard advised and messaged her on Instagram. All my friends are married with.
I hired a friendship coach to help me make friends. here's what happened.
Most people, I asked Bayard for advice on what to say, I thought. I told her I almost canceled our session out of pure shame. I decided to keep our appointment?
Start there. I wrote each hantout down and devoted at least one week to following through on them.
Those with social anxiety struggle because they are in their head and second guess themselves. Bayard was patient and listened to me vent. Who are the people you sometimes hangkut at the same parties and share mutual friends, otherwise.